Friday (Day 76)

Yesterday's post was while I was on my way up to the Pass, and I was having technical difficulties. A close friend who has been a huge supporter since this all began came up from California to visit this weekend, and wanted to meet 'the man'. We started Friday morning off with a early visit to the SNF. My Dad was already up, dressed, and in his wheelchair. After introductions, he asked for the pic of the entire family so he could educate her on who is who. When he got to me, he said "birthday boy". Not only did he remember my birthday, but he sang Happy Birthday for me. This was no where near clear, but you could tell he was singing. I went in for a hug, and that was the last straw. Both of us broke down in tears. It was pretty amazing really, and I will never forget this birthday.

We cleaned ourselves up and he apologized to Jen for crying!! Then he thanked her for the donations she collected for us in California, and proceeded with the inquiry that a father would ask a girl that his son brings before him....with a little twist. His questions were a bit on the personal side, but hey....if anyone can get away with asking odd questions right now, it would be him.

We took him for a lap around the parking lot, then watched a little football, and back to his room. She and I had to get going, so as I began saying goodbye...I told him that this was the best birthday ever. He replied with something I couldn't quite make out....but eventually got it. I was his Rock, he said. Guess what happened next? Yup....more waterworks. I went in for a hug, and he was pounding on my back....showing his strength, as we cried in each others arms.

I can honestly say there is nothing that can humble a man more, than seeing his own father cry. It was a good cry, and a moment I will never forget. He told Jen 'it was wonderful to meet you', she gave him a kiss, and we were on our way.

After we left, I asked her if my portrayal of this situation via our conversations and this blog is accurate to his condition in person. She said you just have to see it for yourself to realize the impact, and how special every little thing that he does, truly is.